Anonymous asked: It's not a coincidence, but it's not necessarily going to be the story of your life either. It is good that you are aware of it and if it keeps being a problem, you will know to address it. But the more troubled, chaotic, dad-issues background you have, the stronger these tendencies will be. "bad" guys have a 6th sense for finding girls with these "issues" which pairs nicely with the inclination of those girls to self sabotage. 1/2
I love to think that I haven’t necessarily been with people who are awful by choice, but have their own issues leading them to do some not so great things… but to be honest everything’s been so much better with my dad recently, and I do think I’ve grown out of the phase of putting up with the shit of boys who are bad for me.